Wedding drama: Groom’s ex wears scandalous outfit, bride seeks revenge

The day you are wed is expected to be the happiest day of your life and you will stop at nothing to make it great. So, it’d be very silly to think that everything will go without a hitch. The decorations may not be perfect. Your vendors might run late. Or…ex of your partner shows up in short dagger.
This was exactly what happened at the micro wedding. She revealed on the internet about how badly her husband’s ex made herself look like a fool. The author of that viral post got back to Bored Panda describing some of her thoughts on the matter as well as how couples can deal with wedding stress while planning for it, let’s read on!

In small marriages usually people allows only closest family members and friends

Background – We decided that we would have a micro wedding just with our immediate family which is around 10 people. We had our wedding in an event hall that primarily deals with large numbers but we booked one of their smaller rooms instead.
My partner has a child with his ex, so see her a lot about my stepson. We were always going to ask her to come to the wedding and see their kid dressed up and keep things cool for parenting. Before we invited her though, she told DH that she would be there and asked about when and where it was happening. He was a bit shocked but seeing as we were planning on asking her anyway, he simply informed her.
On the day itself, I saw that in the morning, she appeared wearing stockings & suspenders, skyscraper heels, nightclub makeup, some costume jewelry on short dress ever while my father pulled me aside asking “who hired a stripper?!”
According to our mutual friends later on, she had texted all of them asking when they were arriving –this is because since she invited herself, I did not think that such time required informing her that only family members were involved in this small ceremony- when they replied saying it was family only and separate reception this started panicking her a little.
I will not double-cross you. I want to be honest with you. I don’t want to deceive your belief.
I had the best revenge, I asked all to be extra good to her. When she wanted to steal away anybody would engross her. She was sitting with a coat covering her and feel sore. The marriage went off without holdup.
I am not certain what she expected to occur, but it all worked fine.

The bride chose to take the high road in her revenge against her groom’s ex

A lady we interviewed shared how her husband’s ex-girlfriend had dressed scantily for their wedding, but she did not care and preferred enjoying it. The reviewer pointed out that one should never forget that this is about them and no one else.
According to the bride, they should keep only those traditions that they like and not worry about everything being perfect. Even though the ex wore a shocking gown at the wedding, it went well with just ten attendees. The bride’s retaliation was for everyone to be extra nice to her. All in all, this weird situation didn’t ruin the joyful mood of the celebration.
Some people were confused by their ex’s strange behavior; this led to discussions about jealousy. Jealousy is a natural emotion that might result in unhealthy obsession or irrational behaviors. Nevertheless, it can also create an opportunity for open dialogue and self-evaluation.
Psychology Today suggests mindful practice, disputing negative thoughts, and engaging the services of a therapist as ways of developing coping mechanisms for jealousy. Acceptance of feelings especially when faced with embarrassment assists one in building emotional resilience that further prevents shame. It is important to handle jealousy healthily since it is just an ordinary feeling. Practicing self-awareness and looking for supportive services assist greatly in managing difficult emotions.