Woman Collects A seven-figure Legal Notice from her father after he finds out he’d been lied for a long

It is true money can lead to various family conflicts when not shared correctly.

A Redditor got a hefty 7-figure legacy but refused to fragment it with her family, giving them different arrangement instead.

Her family believed it, was not great enough, Doctor Suzanne Degges, a professional Counsellor, discussed this whole matter and provided a deep insight into the condition.

Following your loved ones will put you in a tough situation.

She had rejected to share her legacy with her mother and bro.

AITA for not sharing inheritance with brother

“My father died when I was just 5. And she married with Lee. He is a rich guy and my mother never had to work, I was given all I needed in life. But one thing I never received and that is acceptance from Lee’s family. They disliked that he chose my married mom. I was close with my stepdad who continued to care for me even after my bro Sam was born. Mom gave him a great favor  and didn’t want me now.”

“My Mother have been threaten by a relative of my Stepdad about the birth of my brother Sam but, in my home, I was still behaved as an unknown child. I was called by my brother to ply and this brought a gap to take an action about university. I was in touch with lee since some months but not with mom.”

“I desired to find a job. The pandemic occurred and I cannot go back. When all was over, my family visited me once and left when I chose to work where I was. But Lee meets me regularly after a few months.”

“After a few months, Lee passed away, in his will he left his wealth to his relatives, almost nothing for my mother – she can keep some valuables and cash (my mother didn’t marry legally) Sam – 150 grand and the rest of the money to me. It was a 7-figure amount.

“Turns out my bro was not his biological kid, which he found recently.”

“My mother and brother were mad, and demanded to share the wealth with them, I said I was willing to put money in the low-risk investment and we split the gain. They want 25% gains each, but I don’t and called me greedy and planned a legal action, but relatives warned them not to go against Lee’s will.”

“I split the gains from my investment and would not let them touch the money Lee left for me because I don’t trust them. AITA?

When parents are no more, Inheritance have been shared equally but if id does not occurred then a lot of problems can be faced. And then one presents sacrifice to solve the problems because he doesn’t want conflict between them.

A person has a right to distribute his or her resources as they see fit; however, vast differences in assets inherited can ignite hostility towards both the other beneficiaries and the dead person.

It should be avoided since it can result in childhood dynamics being rekindled and the existing tension between siblings becoming worse,’ warns Dr. Suzanne Degges on the problem of distributing wealth. In conclusion, this makes families either bond better or break away forever after the death of their beloved mother or father.

Later she posted an update and shared how things developed

“I talked to a lawyer, I discussed my plan, and she said, I’d set aside money for my bro and mom in the name of trust fund. They’ll be paid X amount each month but cannot touch anything more. But they are not with this heavy asset and it is against the will, but they just needed to be taken much care.”

“Everybody visited me at my home they know the actual problem. Sam still has a year of school before going to university, so he’d still be living with his mother whom Lee gave her a while back. I decided to support his education expenses. I’m working with lawyer to look how that can be don.”

“My mom had an affair. She is well-educated and can find a job if she wants. Her valuables are around 6-figures though, so there is always that.”

Their relatives took carrying out his orders utterly. Even since the brother became problematic in the home, they tolerated him for their blood. Now that he’s not, my mother and brother are instantly in their bad book, I think.”

“Once all fixed, I’m considering for change. My job is my craze and a change is the spice of life but it must be a good one.”

Thank you!!!

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